So you think she might be pregnant?

Here’s some quick advice that may be helpful right now:


  • LISTEN: The situation involves more than just you. There are now three lives to think about.
  • STAY CALM: She needs your support now more than ever. She may be carrying the baby, but you are BOTH parents, and regardless of your relationship in the future, that baby needs you too.
  • TALK ABOUT IT: Not only with each other, but prepare to talk with parents and others close to the situation. Hiding the news from people who can genuinely help you only increases the stress.
  • GATHER ALL THE FACTS: Get all the information and seek wise counsel so you can make the best decision for both of you.
  • EXPRESS YOURSELF HONESTLY: It’s normal to have feelings of anger, frustration and fear. But make sure she knows she is not alone.


  • DON’T BAIL: The more you run from this, the harder it becomes to think and act clearly.
  • DON’T PRESSURE HER: Applying pressure will only push her away, possibly into a regretful situation. You will do well to work together as a team.
  • DON’T FORGET: You have a very active role in this situation. Listen to input as well as give your thoughts.

We’re here for you both

She is weighing her options. You also have a choice to make. What are your responsibilities? How should you help? You have a lot to think about.

An unintended pregnancy involves challenging decisions that affect you and those close to you for the rest of your life. As a guy who is the father of this baby, you are not only involved, but you will be affected by the decisions that are before you.

All of your options have trials and consequences.

Pregnancy Centers are not just for women. Our services include YOU. Learn your options. Making an appointment at Blue Water Pregnancy Care Center gives you the chance to work through the questions you have with helpful information. Having another guy to talk to will help you be strong for yourself and your girlfriend.